You are allowed to play games and enjoy them as long as you realize the problematic elements and know that they're problematic. People like feminist frequency aren't asking that you completely stop playing these games, just that you realize the problems and hopefully in the future more games are created without these issues.
You see though, the thing is that there is not as much of a problematic element you make it seem.
Want strong female characters?
Aqua from Kingdom Hearts:Birth By Sleep.
Want lesbians to not be portrayed sexually?
Ellie from The Last of Us.
Want a strong female character before 00s?
Terra from Final Fantasy VI.
You can call out problems once you have a capable amount of proof. When gamers without much trouble can rebuttal your statement, there is no merit to what you’re saying. That’s why they are so aggressive against people like Anita.